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I’m with Kap

Watching the Super Bowl yesterday was equivalent to taking public transportation during the bus boycotts of 1955 Continue reading


Why Aren’t Men Ready For Exclusivity?

Why Aren’t Men Ready For Exclusivity? I told you I’ve been busy! As a guest on the Right To R.E.A.L. Love podcast, Jay and I discuss dating, exclusivity, and the right time to enter into a relationship. Check out Jay’s blog, Up 4 Discussion, for your daily dose of positivity, and to stay up to … Continue reading

Dating 101

Dating 101 Hello All! Have you missed me?  Apologies for being MIA, but I have been quite busy.  You can catch me LIVE as a guest on the Generation U Radio discussing dating and relationships.  Read more about Generation U Radio on Facebook here, on Twitter @GenURadio, and on Instagram @genuradio.    

Giving Boyfriends Husband Benefits

This video garnered so many different responses, I HAD to blog about it. Watch the video…here [STOP PRAISING BOYFRIENDS by Tony A. Gaskins Jr.] As I watched the video, my first thoughts were ‘how tired I am of hearing men give women blanket relationship advice, as though all men are the same,’ and ‘Here we go again,’ … Continue reading

The Side Piece Baby Boom

As of late, stories of side chick pregnancies and simultaneous engagements have become commonplace. I personally know a woman who was sexually involved with a man who later told her that around the same time they were sexually involved, he had gotten engaged to another woman. The latest story from Ebony editor, Jamliah Lemieux, compelled me to write … Continue reading

A Hypersexualized America

As some of you may know, I took a much needed vacation of a lifetime to Dubai, UAE during the holidays (part of the reason for my blogcation). This was an all-encompassing trip to celebrate my birthday, New Year’s Eve, and life in general. The most common question I was asked while away and upon … Continue reading

Why I Want To Marry A Raiders Fan

This could come off as slightly offensive to Oakland Raiders fans, but it isn’t. Look deeper. Really think about what I say and why, and you will actually be flattered by my words. I’m a San Francisco 49ers fan. I loved the 49ers before I knew anything about football – what’s not to love?  I … Continue reading

How To Handle A Breakup During the Holidays

By Kevin Thompson  There’s never really a good time for a breakup. But if you got dumped during the holidays, it might become especially hard for you since you don’t really have time to work through your feelings and process your emotions. Hopefully these tips will help you get through this difficult time.  1. Don’t … Continue reading

Why Love Isn’t the Ultimate Requirement for Marriage

30’s thoughts are popping up everywhere! Check out my latest post on Single Black Male and let me know what you think.  To read more, click here.    

Warning To All Married People

DO NOT DIVORCE!   I REPEAT, DO NOT DIVORCE! If you have someone you love who loves you back, be thankful. Don’t give up on your partner just because you’re bored or times get hard.  Work it out because the current state of dating is TRAGIC, to put it mildly. I was reading the comments … Continue reading

Today, 30 thought:

Basketball is like that fine chick that's exciting but she's ALWAYS around. You get bored quickly. Football is that chick that gives you just enough, but keeps you wanting more...

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