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Why Aren’t Men Ready For Exclusivity?

Why Aren’t Men Ready For Exclusivity? I told you I’ve been busy! As a guest on the Right To R.E.A.L. Love podcast, Jay and I discuss dating, exclusivity, and the right time to enter into a relationship. Check out Jay’s blog, Up 4 Discussion, for your daily dose of positivity, and to stay up to … Continue reading

Dating 101

Dating 101 Hello All! Have you missed me?  Apologies for being MIA, but I have been quite busy.  You can catch me LIVE as a guest on the Generation U Radio discussing dating and relationships.  Read more about Generation U Radio on Facebook here, on Twitter @GenURadio, and on Instagram @genuradio.    

The Year of the Lion

I love how the Chinese Zodiac characterizes each year as an animal. Without researching the implications of this, I intend to implement a similar system in characterizing my site.  This year, for 30thoughts, will be the year of the Lion. I chose the Lion for 2013 because the lion represents courage, strength and ferocity. If … Continue reading

Originally posted on 30thoughts:
     I loathe job interviews, mainly because of the useless, irrelevant  questions asked during these interviews.  What do hiring managers really hope to accomplish by asking canned questions about our work history and future career goals?  It all seems pointless, considering numerous underqualified and mentally unstable candidates (hence the term “going postal”) are being hired each day simply because they are good…

2012 Black Weblog Awards Semi-Finalist

I need you. Well, I don’t need you, but I want you…Well, scratch that. The bottom line is, I am a semi-finalist in the 2012 Black Weblog Awards “Best New Blog” category, and I would greatly appreciate your vote. You’ve supported me, engaged me, and encouraged me beyond measure to continue sharing my opinion on … Continue reading

Blogger’s Delight: The Sunshine Award

Today, I am the proud recipient of the Sunshine Award.  This award is sort of like the SAG Awards, but for bloggers.  Basically, bloggers nominate other deserving bloggers, as sort of a pat on the back. I would like to thank Lolo for this award and return her well wishes and accolades by inviting you all … Continue reading

30thoughts: Nice Guys DO NOT Finish Last [Video]

30thoughts: Episode 3 Nice Guys DO NOT Finish Last Courtney talks about wanting a man with a little “edge,” while Miriam insists most women would prefer a nice guy versus a jerk.

Fiance Formula

Love = timing + chemistry²      However, if I were asked what the single most important ingredient of a successful loving relationship is, I would have to say, it’s timing.  Timing is everything.  Chris Rock said it best in Never Scared when he cleverly stated that, “you will never meet the perfect person and even if you do, … Continue reading

Dear TT: Am I Needy?

Dear TT, When I’m in a relationship with a man I tend to go NUTS when I don’t receive a call from him on a regular basis.  Even if there are no other signs of problems or changes I get angry if a night goes by without a phone call.  I start thinking all kinds … Continue reading

Great Dancing or Smut?

       Are female artists “selling themselves” short?  I would say so, considering how far they are willing to go in their quest for superstardom.  Each year, they reveal more and more of their goodies, compromising themselves and their artistic integrity by showing that they are no more than glorified strippers who happen to be able to … Continue reading

Today, 30 thought:

Basketball is like that fine chick that's exciting but she's ALWAYS around. You get bored quickly. Football is that chick that gives you just enough, but keeps you wanting more...

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